Cody Kirkham

2009 - 2009
LocationNewark Notts
Age0
Cause of DeathRare Heart Condition
Date of Birth2009
Date of Death30/01/2009
Visitors1,062 since 04/01/2010
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My beautiful baby boy Cody. Brother and son...
To bud on earth and bloom in heaven....

I bought the scan forward to new years eve as i was so excited to find out if you were a little daughter or son. "Another son" the nurse said...Yes!!! we were happy,your due date was on the 20th may 2009 brother for my two boys,& leah (daddies daughter), and another son for me and Daddy. We were so happy even though the scan that day shown up there were possible problems with your heart, We shrugged it off, we already had three healthy gorgeous children between us and you were such a live wire in my tummy so we just though maybe it was a mistake.. The next scan date arrive, bad news they also said the same ,but we didnt give up more scans more opinions more hospitals.
You had a very rare heart condition called Tricupsid Valve Dysplasia with severe regurgitaion.
Question,sleepless nights,tears 24hrs a day, This was a bad dream it will get better i thought.
More test shown you also had chromosone 21,this made no difference to me you were still my son,i talked to you every night we stayed awake for hours i was praying and you were playing in my tummy. How could this be happening ! I was searching the net day and night trying to find answers or just some hope..

Jan 29th 2009 my heart broke when we had to say goodbye and let you go to that special place where there is no pain or illness, you were born jan 30th at 7.22am after a long labour, they laid you on my chest, you were the most beautiful boy in the world so warm and soft,you looked so much like your brother Taylor, The hardest day of my life was to leave you behind at the hospital all i wanted was to take you home with me like all mums do when they just gave birth to the most precious thing in the world..
The cuddles we had i miss so much and i would give anything to hold you again...
You were laid to rest on the 9th of feb 2009 the service was beautiful and so many of our friends and family turned up to say goodbye to you, you touched so many hearts and you still live on within them, Your big brother Mitchell made us so very proud with his speech he had written and read out to us all..We all lit a candle for you to show you the way to the place we call heaven.
I hope you are happy and pain free in that special place, You gained your wings.I know you are the brightest star in the sky shining down on us and the butterfly which joins us in the garden.I hold your blanket close every night.Until we meet again my precious one...Love you and miss u so very much....xxxx

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My christmas angel baby....

How i wish you were here in body to share what would be your 2nd christmas...it breaks my heart missing one of my boys but i know you are here in spirit and watch everything we do and say you are a huge part of our christmas cody and we love you so very much. .. big hugs and lots of kisses my angel baby....luv mummy mitchell taylor xxxxxxxxxxxxxx .

Jemma Kirkham (Mummy)

December 15, 2011

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merry christmas xx

Maxine Brown

December 15, 2011

if only...

if only we could have you cody.....
i miss you so very much ....xxxxx

Jemma Kirkham (Mummy)

August 10, 2010

SInce you went away my heart breaks everyday....
miss u so much baby boy..xxxxxxx
luv mummy.xxxxxx

Jemma Kirkham (Mummy)

July 8, 2010

An angel in the book of life wrote down

our babies birth

and whispered as she closed the book

"Too beautiful for earth"

Jemma Kirkham (Mummy)

March 19, 2010

My butterfly

Go to sleep my little baby
go to sleep, butterfly.
Go to sleep my little darling
sleep all through the night.
You're my little butterfly
so spread your wings, and fly tonight.
I'll come too,
just take my hand.
And we'll go to
that special land.
Where butterflies are free
not a hurt in the world.
Where everyone loves
all the little boy's
Where there's no pain
and noone is crying.
There's no drugs, jail or death
everyone is flying.
Where everything is right
there is no wrong.
Where everything is peaceful
the only noise is a song.
Just close your eyes
and you'll be there. * * V * *
Just promise me, baby * * *
you'll come back here. * *
So dream away, * * *
my little baby * *
Dream away,
~BUTTERFLY~

Jemma Kirkham (Mummy)

March 7, 2010

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I'm sending you this teddy..
Beautiful Angel above
So cuddle it so tight
'Cos it's made with love

Give this teddy a cuddle..
And a great big kiss
It's made especially for you..
Beautiful Angel we love and miss

copyright� Jackie Thomas 06/02/2010.

Michelle Robinson

February 25, 2010

losing you.xxx

In losing you I lost a piece of my soul,
I've never experienced anything quite so cruel.
Death didn't have a right to take you away,
Now it seems there will never be a brighter day.

They say you're in a better place,
I know I should believe them but it's hard to face.
I want you back here,
but I know, you now don't have to live in fear.
So now the truth I have to accept,
That death took you and I couldn't protect.
xxxxxxx

Jemma Kirkham (Mummy)

February 21, 2010

Rest in peace
my precious child.
The pain I feel is
far from mild.

Not a chance to
say good-bye,
Before HE gave you
wing to fly.

My heart became shattered,
my life such a mess.
Wondering daily if
I'd ever progress.

It's been a year
since you were taken away.
The mask of a smile is
the image I portray..xxxxx

i miss u xx

Jemma Kirkham (Mummy)

February 21, 2010

Mummy carried you so lovingly
Within her gentle womb
And little did we realise
Your life would end to soon
We never got the chance to say
"We love you, little one",
Before we held you in our arms
Your life on earth was done.
We know we'll see the sun shine bright
Upon your little face
When we finally get to Heaven
All our pain will be erased.

Loving you ALWAYS.

Jemma Kirkham (Mummy)

February 10, 2010
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